The SmutWords Glossary

Every trope, kink, fetish, and dynamic explained in plain language — plus real books to read for each one.

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D/s Dynamic

A relationship structure where one partner holds authority and control (the Dominant) and the other willingly surrenders it (the submissive), extending power exchange beyond scenes into the everyday rules, rituals, and rhythms of the relationship.

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Deflowering Kink

A kink centered on the erotic fantasy or roleplay of taking or being the one to take a virginity, often framed as a rite of passage or a moment of sacred surrender in romance fiction.

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Degradation Kink

A consensual dynamic where a person derives arousal from being verbally or physically humiliated, objectified, or demeaned by a partner, often framed as a power exchange within a scene or relationship.

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Dominance and Submission

Dominance and Submission, often shortened to D/s, is a power exchange dynamic where one partner consensually takes control (the Dominant) and the other consensually yields control (the submissive), shaping their sexual and emotional interactions around this negotiated hierarchy.

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Double Penetration

A sexual scenario in which a character is penetrated simultaneously by two partners or objects, often combining vaginal and anal penetration.

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Dubious Consent (Dubcon)

A scene where one partner's consent is unclear, coerced, or given under pressure, often in a fictional power imbalance, and the other partner proceeds anyway.